Halalan Thayyiba

Kawan ummi, everytime he sees me he always ask me one same question(maybe die takde modal nak cakap dgn ummi).


"Iylia, kau rasa kan, katok(term we use utk panggil orang yang makan daging sembelihan bukan Islam. contoh ayam KFC kat US) tu boleh ke tak?"

Hmm..dalam Quran cakap, sembelihan ahli kitab boleh makan.

"Habis tu kenapa kau tak nak katok?"

Sebab..aku tak tahu sapa sembelih binatang tu. Kan mostly orang guna machine je kat sini. And buatnya bukan Christian dengan Jews yang sembelih macam mana??

"Iylia..kau kena buat banyak research lagi ni. Aku baca boleh je makan ayam katok. Cuba kau tengok orang Arab, bulan puasa siap beli ayam katok bawak pergi masjid"

Erk..Orang Arab tak semestinya Islamik. Yes, I know ada ulama cakap makanan itu halal jika ia halal di kalangan ahli kitab.. tapi..kan kita boleh dapat makanan halal kat sini. boleh beli ayam daging kat masjid. kenapa nak carik yang syubhah jugak.

"Tapi aku yakin.."

Makanan yang kita consume akan jadi darah daging kita. and dapat pada anak2..Kalau tak makan benda2 yang baik nanti effect bukan je kat kita, tapi kat our kids jugak..kann??Kalau haram, doa pun tak termakbul.

"Habis tu Iylia..camne kalau kau dapat husband yang katok?"

Hahaha!! ok in that case, that's why aku should avoid kawin 90% student US yang katok..

"erk."

...

ok ummi tak nak debate benda ni because there's a lot of opinions from the scholars and only Allah swt can judge people. but there's one thing I want you to remember, whatever you choose to do, do it to please Allah swt. contoh: nak tidur, tidur la dgn niat esok senang nak bangun subuh, belajar dgn niat untuk membantu ummah...etc etc

and sayang, please take care of everything you eat. Make sure they are halal and thayyib. Darah daging yang haram akan jadi bahan bakar dekat api neraka..cuak tak?

...

One last thing(yang xde kena mengena dgn this entry)

Sweetheart, you will meet a lot of people when you grow up. some are nice. and some may hurt you. People may take advantage on you, you may have friends who find you only when they need something from you, someone may backstab you, someone may hate you, your fiancee may has someone else or whatever..

No matter what happened, I want you to be nice to people for I always pray that Allah swt will protect you and your walid.. and I know He always do.

and keep in your mind that I always love you =)

Anak ummi jangan nakal

*nakal sgt ummi gigit!

قصة الذئب والخراف السبعة

Ummi belajar cartoon ni kat kelas tadi. sgt funny

I'll write something after my exam. but take a look what Ummi bought these few days

ni 1/4 dari brg dapur..haha..ada lagi yg dah kemas..this year tak de org pesan apa2 so ummi bought things for myself.I thought ummi je y advance beli brg rumah although xde calon rupanya my roomate siap beli kain untk buat baju kawin plus hantaran..haha..oh perempuan..

ok that's all. Salam

*tok caq suh bawak balik husband omputih =( ummi tak nak..ummi rasa ummi kne buat advert sapa nak jadi walid Aisya..hahaha..*

Hadis

وعن عائشة قالت: لما رأيت من النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم طيب نفس قلت: يا رسول الله ادع الله لي، قال: "اللهم اغفر لعائشة ما تقدم من ذنبها وما تأخر وما أسرت وما أعلنت" فضحكت عائشة حتى سقط رأسها في حجرها من الضحك، فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: "أيسرك دعائي؟". فقالت: وما لي لا يسرني دعاؤك؟! فقال: "والله إنها لدعوتي لأمتي في كل صلاة

‘A’ishah narrated:

“Once, when I saw the Prophet in a good mood, I said to him: “O Messenger of Allah! Supplicate to Allah for me!”

So, he said: “O Allah! Forgive ‘A’ishah her past and future sins, what she has hidden, as well as what she has made apparent.“

So, I began smiling, to the point that my head fell into my lap out of joy.

The Messenger of Allah said to me: “Does my supplication make you happy?“

I replied: “And how can your supplication not make me happy?”

He then said: “By Allah, it is the supplication that I make for my Ummah in every prayer.“

Kitab: Al-Silsilah sahihah

Hadis hasan(Albani), Sahih(Ibnu Hibban)

 

*The more you know him, the more you will love him =)*

Mencintai Dalam Diam

Dipendamkan di dalam hatinya, yang tidak diceritakan kepada sesiapa tentang perasaan hatinya. Tertarik dirinya seorang gadis, yang punya peribadi tinggi, paras yang cantik, kecekalan yang kuat, apatah lagi ibadahnya, hasil didikan ayahnya yang dicintai oleh umat manusia, yakni Rasulullah S.A.W. Itulah Fatimah Az-Zahrah, puteri kesayangan Nabi Muhammad, serikandi berperibadi mulia. Dia sedar, dirinya tidak punya apa-apa, untuk meminang puteri Rasulullah. Hanya usaha dengan bekerja supaya dapat merealisasikan cintanya. Itulah Ali, sepupu baginda sendiri. Sehingga beliau tersentap, mendengar perkhabaran bahawa sahabat mulia nabi, Abu Bakar As-Siddiq, melamar Fatimah.


”Allah mengujiku rupanya”, begitu batin ’Ali. Ia merasa diuji kerana merasa apalah dia dibanding Abu Bakar. Kedudukan di sisi Nabi? Abu Bakr lebih utama, mungkin dia bukan kerabat dekat Nabi seperti ’Ali, namun keimanan dan pembelaannya pada Allah dan RasulNya tak tertandingi. Lihatlah bagaimana Abu Bakr menjadi kawan perjalanan Nabi dalam hijrah sementara ’Ali bertugas menggantikan beliau untuk menanti maut di ranjangnya.Lihatlah juga bagaimana Abu Bakr berda’wah. Lihatlah berapa banyak tokoh bangsawan dan saudagar Makkah yang masuk Islam karena sentuhan Abu Bakar; ’Utsman, ’Abdurrahman ibn ’Auf, Thalhah, Zubair, Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqash, Mush’ab. Ini yang tak mungkin dilakukan kanak-kanak kurang pergaulan seperti ’Ali. Lihatlah berapa banyak budak muslim yang dibebaskan dan para faqir yang dibela Abu Bakar; Bilal, Khabbab, keluarga Yassir, ’Abdullah ibn Mas’ud. Dan siapa budak yang dibebaskan ’Ali?Dari segi kewangan, Abu Bakar sang saudagar, insyaallah lebih bisa membahagiakan Fathimah.’Ali hanya pemuda miskin dari keluarga miskin.


”Inilah persaudaraan dan cinta”, gumam ’Ali.
”Aku mengutamakan Abu Bakr atas diriku, aku mengutamakan kebahagiaan Fathimah atas cintaku.”


Namun, sinar masih ada buatnya. Perkhabaran diterima bahawa pinangan Abu Bakar ditolah baik oleh Nabi. Ini menaikkan semangat beliau untuk berusaha mempersiapkan diri. Tapi, ujian itu bukan setakat disitu, kali ini perkhabaran lain diterima olehnya. Umar Al-Khatab, seorang sahabat gagah perkasa, menggerunkan musuh islam, dan dia pula cuba meminang Fatimah. Seorang lelaki yang terang-terangan mengisytiharkan keislamannya, yang nyata membuatkan muslimin dan muslimat ketika itu yang dilanda ketakutan oleh tentangan kafir quraisy mula berani mendongak muka, seorang lelaki yang membuatkan syaitan berlari ketakutan.


Ya, Al Faruq, sang pemisah kebenaran dan kebathilan itu juga datang melamar Fathimah. Ali mendengar sendiri betapa seringnya Nabi berkata, ”Aku datang bersama Abu Bakr dan ’Umar, aku keluar bersama Abu Bakr dan ’Umar, aku masuk bersama Abu Bakr dan ’Umar”. Betapa tinggi kedudukannya di sisi Rasul, di sisi ayah Fathimah. Ali redha kerana dia tahu Umar lagi layak darinya. Tetapi, sekali lagi peluang terbuka, tatkala perkhabaran diterimanya, bahawa pinangan Umar juga ditolak. Bagaimanakah sebenarnya menantu pilihan nabi, sedangkan dua sahabat baginda turut ditolak peminangannya?


Pada suatu hari Abu Bakar As-Shiddiq r.a. Umar Ibnul Khatab r.a. dan Sa’ad bin Mu’adz bersama-sama Rasul Allah s.a.w. duduk dalam masjid. Pada kesempatan itu diperbincangkan antara lain persoalan puteri Rasul Allah s.a.w. Saat itu baginda bertanya kepada Abu Bakar As-Shiddiq r.a “Apakah engkau bersedia menyampaikan persoalan Fatimah itu kepada Ali bin Abi Thalib?”


Abu Bakar As-Shiddiq menyatakan kesediaanya. Ia beranjak untuk menghubungi Ali r.a. Sewaktu Ali r.a. melihat datangnya Abu Bakar As-Shiddiq r.a. dgn tergopoh-gopoh dan terperanjat ia menyambutnya kemudian bertanya: “Anda datang membawa berita apa?”


Setelah duduk beristirahat sejenak Abu Bakar As-Shiddiq r.a. segera menjelaskan persoalannya: “Hai Ali engkau adalah orang pertama yg beriman kepada Allah dan Rasul-Nya serta mempunyai keutamaan lebih dibanding dengan orang lain. Semua sifat utama ada pada dirimu. Demikian pula engkau adalah kerabat Rasul Allah s.a.w. Beberapa orang sahabat terkemuka telah menyampaikan lamaran kepada baginda untuk mempersunting puteri beliau. Lamaran itu telah beliau semua tolak. Beliau mengemukakan bahawa persoalan puterinya diserahkan kepada Allah s.w.t. Akan tetapi hai Ali apa sebab hingga sekarang engkau belum pernah menyebut-nyebut puteri beliau itu dan mengapa engkau tidak melamar untuk dirimu sendiri? Kuharap semoga Allah dan RasulNya akan menahan puteri itu untukmu.”


Mendengar perkataan Abu Bakar r.a. mata Saidina Ali r.a. berlinang air mata. Menanggapi kata-kata itu, Ali r.a. berkata: “Hai Abu Bakar, anda telah membuatkan hatiku bergoncang yang semulanya tenang. Anda telah mengingatkan sesuatu yang sudah kulupakan. Demi Allah aku memang menghendaki Fatimah tetapi yang menjadi penghalang satu-satunya bagiku ialah kerana aku tidak mempunyai apa-apa.”


Abu Bakar r.a. terharu mendengar jawapan Ali itu. Untuk membesarkan dan menguatkan hati Imam Ali r.a. Abu Bakar r.a. berkata: “Hai Ali, janganlah engkau berkata seperti itu. Bagi Allah dan Rasul-Nya dunia dan seisinya ini hanyalah ibarat debu bertaburan belaka!”


Setelah berlangsung dialog seperlunya Abu Bakar r.a. berhasil mendorong keberanian Imam Ali r.a. untuk melamar puteri Rasul Allah s.a.w.


Beberapa waktu kemudian Saidina Ali r.a. datang menghadap Rasul Allah s.a.w. yg ketika itu sedang berada di tempat kediaman Ummu Salmah. Mendengar pintu diketuk orang, Ummu Salmah bertanya kepada Rasulullah s.a.w.: “Siapakah yg mengetuk pintu?” Rasul Allah s.a.w. menjawab: “Bangunlah dan bukakan pintu baginya. Dia orang yang dicintai Allah dan RasulNya dan ia pun mencintai Allah dan Rasul-Nya!”


Jawapan Nabi Muhammad s.a.w. itu belum memuaskan Ummu Salmah r.a. Ia bertanya lagi: “Ya tetapi siapakah dia itu?”


“Dia saudaraku orang kesayanganku!” jawab Nabi Muhammad s.a.w.


Tercantum dalam banyak riwayat bahawa Ummu Salmah di kemudian hari mengisahkan pengalamannya sendiri mengenai kunjungan Saidina Ali r.a. kepada Nabi Muhammad s.a.w. itu: “Aku berdiri cepat-cepat menuju ke pintu sampai kakiku terantuk-antuk. Setelah pintu kubuka ternyata orang yang datang itu ialah Ali bin Abi Thalib. Aku lalu kembali ke tempat semula. Ia masuk kemudian mengucapkan salam dan dijawab oleh Rasul Allah s.a.w. Ia dipersilakan duduk di depan beliau. Ali bin Abi Thalib menundukkan kepala seolah-olah mempunyai maksud tetapi malu hendak mengutarakannya.


Rasul Allah mendahului berkata: “Hai Ali nampaknya engkau mempunyai suatu keperluan. Katakanlah apa yang ada dalam fikiranmu. Apa saja yang engkau perlukan akan kau peroleh dariku!”


Mendengar kata-kata Rasul Allah s.a.w. yang demikian itu lahirlah keberanian Ali bin Abi Thalib untuk berkata: “Maafkanlah ya Rasul Allah. Anda tentu ingat bahawa anda telah mengambil aku dari pakcikmu Abu Thalib dan makcikmu Fatimah binti Asad di kala aku masih kanak-kanak dan belum mengerti apa-apa.


Sesungguhnya Allah telah memberi hidayat kepadaku melalui anda juga. Dan anda ya Rasul Allah adl tempat aku bernaung dan anda jugalah yang menjadi wasilahku di dunia dan akhirat. Setelah Allah membesarkan diriku dan sekarang menjadi dewasa aku ingin berumah tangga; hidup bersama seorang isteri. Sekarang aku datang menghadap untuk melamar puteri anda Fatimah. Ya Rasul Allah apakah anda berkenan menyetujui dan menikahkan diriku dengan Fatimah?”


Ummu Salmah melanjutkan kisahnya: “Saat itu kulihat wajah Rasul Allah nampak berseri-seri. Sambil tersenyum beliau berkata kepada Ali bin Abi Thalib: “Hai Ali apakah engkau mempunyai suatu bekal mas kahwin?” .


“Demi Allah” jawab Ali bin Abi Thalib dengan terus terang “Anda sendiri mengetahui bagaimana keadaanku tak ada sesuatu tentang diriku yg tidak anda ketahui. Aku tidak mempunyai apa-apa selain sebuah baju besi sebilah pedang dan seekor unta.”


“Tentang pedangmu itu” kata Rasul Allah s.a.w. menanggapi jawapan Ali bin Abi Thalib “engkau tetap memerlukannya untuk perjuangan di jalan Allah. Dan untamu itu engkau juga perlu buat keperluan mengambil air bagi keluargamu dan juga engkau memerlukannya dalam perjalanan jauh. Oleh kerana itu aku hendak menikahkan engkau hanya atas dasar mas kahwin sebuah baju besi saja. Aku puas menerima barang itu dari tanganmu. Hai Ali engkau wajib bergembira sebab Allah ‘Azza wa*jalla sebenarnya sudah lebih dahulu menikahkan engkau di langit sebelum aku menikahkan engkau di bumi!” Demikian riwayat yang diceritakan Ummu Salmah r.a.


Setelah segala-galanya siap dengan perasaan puas dan hati gembira dgn disaksikan oleh para sahabat Rasul Allah s.a.w. mengucapkan kata-kata ijab kabul pernikahan puterinya: “Bahwasanya Allah s.w.t. memerintahkan aku supaya menikahkan engkau Fatimah atas dasar mas kahwin 400 dirham. Mudah-mudahan engkau dapat menerima hal itu.”


“Ya Rasul Allah, itu kuterima dgn baik” jawab Ali bin Abi Thalib r.a. dalam pernikahan itu.


Inilah jalan cinta para pejuang. Jalan yang mempertemukan cinta dan semua perasaan dengan tanggungjawab.


Cinta tak pernah meminta untuk menanti.
Seperti ’Ali.
Ia mempersilakan.
Atau mengambil kesempatan.
Yang pertama adalah pengorbanan.
Yang kedua adalah keberanian.


Dan ternyata tak kurang juga yang dilakukan oleh Puteri Sang Nabi, dalam suatu riwayat dikisahkan, bahwa suatu hari, Fathimah berkata kepada ‘Ali:
“Maafkan aku, karena sebelum menikah denganmu. Aku pernah satu kali merasakan jatuh cinta pada seorang pemuda” ‘Ali terkejut dan berkata, “Jikalau begitu, mengapakah engkau mahu menikah denganku? Dan Siapakah pemuda itu”
Sambil tersenyum Fathimah berkata, “Ya, kerana pemuda itu adalah Dirimu”

Source: Hakimah Nabahah



*it's thanksgiving break and I'm pretty busy with school works. =( but this friday is Black Friday(mega sale in US)..this year punya goal nak beli pinggan mangkuk corelle and periuk2..smoga ummi berjaya menahan nafsu dan berfikiran rasional sewaktu bershopping(walaupun selalu gagal)..haha

Catatan #7

Ummi teringat dekat arwah semenjak 2 menjak ni. Dia yang paling baik pada ummi, paling amik berat pada ummi dekat sini. Mungkin sebab dia baik Allah amik die. tinggallah ummi..sebab tu ummi selalu pesan, be nice sayang and be nice to people. Sekalipun kita muda tak semestinya Allah tak kan amik kite. and orang yang kita sayang, mungkin saja dia akan tinggalkan kita selamanya esok hari. Semoga arwah dicucuri rahmat dan ditempatkan bersama2 orang yang soleh.  

*phone ummi sedang mengalami zaman kejatuhan dan kegelapan..tp malas nak beli lain.buruk2 pun syg..

Al-khawatir

Ingat tak, I wrote about surah Al-Kauthar the other day. Then ummi found this video and he was talking about some verses in Quran and one of them is the verse "in nasya ni aka huwa al-abtar". In this video, Ahman AlShugairi was describing when this surah was revealed and what happened to As ibnu Wa'id for calling the Prophet saw "abtar". I think this story is so sad, it is just like telling people who want children that they won't have one. Ummi takdela faham 100% of what he said. but this guy want to tell us the importance of learning the language of Al-Quran and the story behind every verse. If we just read the translation, we still may not understand why the verse is significant. So, if rajin, belek2 Tafsir fi zilalil quran, tafsir ibnu khatir ke..oh yang lain ummi tak sure tapi ummi selalu rujuk 2 ni la.

Zawji mustaqbal (My future zawj)

كم اشتاق اليك زوجى الحبيب 

كم انتظرك حتى تأتينى وتكون لى رفيقا فى دربى  

كم اتمنى من الله ان تكون حافظا للقران حتى تكون زوجى ومعلمى

كم من الايام التى احلم فيها انك سوف تكون امامى فى الصلاة

كم من السجود الذى ادعو فيه ان يجمعنا الله سويا فى بيته الحرام 

كم من الدعاء بأن يرزقنا الله الذريه الصالحه وتكون قرة عين لى ولك

اتمنى واتمنى واتمنى 

واتمنى الكثير والكثير

اتمنى ان تكون لى امانا 

 اتمنى ان تكون لى حبيبا

اتمنى ان تكون لى معينا على طاعه الله

اتمنى ان تسبق يديك يدى وتمسح دمعى عندما ابكى حزنا

 اتمنى ان تكون لى صديقا واكون لك صديقة وتكون لى الاب والاخ وتكون لى كل شيء

زوجى انتظرك وكلى شوق اوعدك زوجى باذن الله كما اتمنى ان تكون لى كل شيء ساكون لك كل شيء وكما ادعو الله ان يجعلك زوج صالح لى ان يجعلنى زوجه صالحة لك

زوجى لقد اخذت عهدا على نفسي ان احافظ على نفسي كما امرنى الله وان اطيع الله واكون مثل الدرة المكنونة الذى لا يراها احد المحفوظة فى الاعماق

انا لا اعلم من انت ولا اين ولا اعلم ما هو حالك الان

 ولكنى ادعو الله دائما ان يحفظك من كل شر وسوء وان يجعلك سعيدا دائما وان يبعد عنك وساوس الشيطان الرجيم

الى ان القاك قريبا باذن الله 

جمعنا الله فى حبه ورضاة

والسلام عليكم ورحمه الله وبركاته

*I don't write this

Allah swt always cheer me up when I'm feeling upset. Tell you what. I love Him so much!

Saya rasa

Ummi rasa...

ummi tak berharga bila orang suka cakap pasal org y prnh significant kat die..
heh apa ummi ckp ni..

ok untuk mnjadikan post ni berilmiah..sila baca ni..mesej kawan ummi kasi..ummi tgh ajar die sikit2 pasal Islam

Thanks for the talk you sent me. I agreed with a lot of what he said. I liked specifically that he equated independence with isolation. I thought that that was really true. A lot what he said was very true for those of us who follow Jesus: the idea of loving others, of acting selflessly, of caring for your family, of husbands needing to care for and protect their family. In fact, the only difference I saw between what Muslims teach and what those who follow Isa teach is that those who follow Isa believe that we can never actually do these things perfectly. Isa followers believe that the purpose of God coming to earth (in the form of Isa) is because we will never be good enough to make it to heaven on Judgment Day. So God had to come to earth to take the punishment for all of our sins (death). So, while followers of Isa believe in all of the things in this talk, we believe that only through Isa taking our punishment can we communicate with God. It sounds crazy, but we actually believe that because Isa took our punishment, God now lives in us! So only through us allowing God to have control of us are we able to now do any of the things mentioned in this talk. Haha, you probably think we're crazy! Is this completely different than the Muslim religion? Or are there similarities?




moga Allah bantu ummi dan berikan dia kefahaman. Amin.


*ummi rasa ummi kena sembunyi dlm gua lah..i luv u kids..

Catatan #6

*ummi tak berapa sihat so ummi copy paste dari orang je eh..hehe..

Awak,

Kita tidak berpegangan tangan seperti mereka,

Melafaz kata cinta berbalas-balasan,

Bahkan sering ada jarak antara kita,

Dan wujud pelbagai batasan,

Kita ini bercintakah?

Awak,

Kita ini tidak sering berhubungan,

Tiada bicara manis,

Dan masing-masing sibuk dengan diri untuk dipersiapkan.

Kita ini bercintakah?

——————————————————————

Ya,

Kita ini bercinta,

Cuma bukan dengan definisi mereka.

Tetapi dengan definisiNya.

Belum waktunya untuk melangkaui batas yang ada,

Sekarang adalah masa untuk mempersiapkan diri kita.

Manis hubungan bukan pada pegangan tangan,

Juga bukan pada bicara kata,

Tetapi dengan hubungan kita terhadap Tuhan,

Dan sejauh mana kita menjaga pasangan dari neraka.

Nanti bila bersama,

Kita bukanlah keluarga biasa,

Bahkan pasangan yang siap untuk menembus syurgaNya.

Awak,

Bukankah itu cinta?

Source: Hilal Asyraf

*Awat ummi baca bnda2 cinta gini..haish.........cinta pada Allah lg pntg..

Akhir kata dari ummi, sile watch this video:

 lion suka hug2. die baik sbnrnye

*thank you Allah for always be with me. and help me waktu tgh nazak cmni..I love you!

Aisya #11: Hello walid

Sejak Aisya dah kenal nombor and memorize walid punya no fon, inila jadinya..

Aisya: Assalamualaikum, can I speak to my Walid please?
Walid: Waalaikumussalam..It's me sweetie..Why are you calling me?
Aisya: I drew a picture of you, ummi, Muhammad and me at school today and my teacher said my drawing is pretty.
Walid: Oh really? Wow!That's awesome. I can't wait to get home and see your drawing.
Aisya: Are you at your office?
Qalid: Yes, I'm working.
Aisya: Can you come home early so we can go to the playground?
Walid: I'll go home as soon as I finish my work ok? but you have to let me do my work first. Where's ummi?
Aisya: Ummi's cooking. I want to watch Spongebob now. I'll call you later when I'm free.
Walid: Ok2.
Aisya: Bye2. I love you Walid.
Walid: Bye.. I love you too.

*ce ummi yang call..mesti kena marah kan?*
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At a younger age your children crave for you attention,but when they get older, you will crave for their attention. If they don't get enough attention when they were young, trust me, when they get older they will look for you only when they need something and their friend will be more important than you. So, treat your kids well!

Narrated Aisha: A lady along with her two daughters came to me asking (for some alms), but she found nothing with me except one date which I gave to her and she divided it between her two daughters, and did not eat anything herself, and then she got up and went away. Then the Prophet came in and I informed him about this story. He said, "Whoever is put to trial by these daughters and he treats them generously (with benevolence) then these daughters will act as a shield for him from hell-Fire." (See Hadith No. 24, Vol. 8).  (Book #24, Hadith #499) Sahih Bukhari

ummi nak ni..ummi nakkkkkkk..=(
Bila kerajaan Malaysia nak benarkan bela lion?

Panduan buat stalker-stalker sedunia

Saja je kan buat stalker to jamak, padahal nk ckp pasal diri senirik..kihkih.

Ummi ada baca few articles yesterday, and ummi tertarik dengan tajuk ni:

Stalking is permissible in Islam

Weird kan? I’m sure we are fully aware that spying and stalking are haram based on Surah Al-Hujurat verse 12.

"O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah ; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful."


But “stalking” in this term means seeking a woman for marriage. And it can be done based on certain rules:

1. If you have strong intention to marry her
2. Restricted to only woman’s hand and face
3. From a distance
4. Without her knowing(because if she knew, she may act differently from what she actually was, and she may be disappointed if the man changed his mind and not proposing her.
5. Before proposing

According to Shaykh al-Waleed al-Faryaan, a man should not look at any woman except the one he seriously wants to marry. Kalau tak berkenan then he can move on to another.

Al-Mughirah ibn Sha‘bah said:

“I got engaged to a woman at the time of the Prophet (S.A.W). He asked me, ‘Have you seen her?’ I said, ‘No.’ He said, ‘Go and have a look at her, because it is more fitting that love and compatibility be established between you.’” [1]

But don't get me wrong, ada batasan in everything we do. cukup sekadar mengenali dengan siapa kita berkawan. So, after we did these and berkenan, we can proceed to the next step.

*orang sekarang ni suka stalk celebrity, which is sooo buang masa.*

Engagement according to Shariah

5 ways of engagement:

1. When the man directly propose/asks the woman to marry him
2. The man asks the woman's wali to marry her daughter
3. Using third party for engagement purpose
4. Wali offer his daughter to a pious man
5. A woman offer herself to a pious man

If both parties agree and accept(using either one of these methods) they are considered to be engaged according to shariah.

Sebenarnya, engagement party tu tak required pun dalam Islam.

Pasal bertunang ni, ummi tertarik dengan satu hadis:

Rasulullah saw bersabda: Seorang lelaki tidak boleh meminang pinangan lelaki lain, sehingga lelaki pertama yang meminangnya membatalkannya, atau mengizinkannya.(Hadis riwayat Bukhari)

So, if you got engaged and lepas tu Ustaz Don nak masuk meminang, kire tak leh la..kihkihkih.

Sources:
[1] Reported by Al-Nisa'i sahih isnad

http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/20069
http://www.iluvislam.com/v1/readarticle.php?article_id=967
http://www.wefound.org/texts/Ideal_Muslims_files/hiswife.htm

*hmm status ummi tak dpat dikenal pasti.tak pelah.doa y trbaik ok.*

A Mujahid's Letter to His Wife

I Never Left You...

You never complained when you knew we would have nothing. You were contempt on having what little you needed.

Where others would have left or moaned you never once let out a sigh. You understood what was written was what we would eat.

I never once complained about what was put in front of me as I knew it was your hands that brought it to me.

When I had nothing I had you. We smiled as we saw the destruction around us knowing that these people were not true.

You never felt sympathy towards the enemy. You put your trust in Allah swt and in turn you followed me. Never did I have to wonder about you as my secrets my honour and my Deen were safe with you.

When the enemy barked you never flinched. You were strong and in turn made me strong.

We both know what hardships you faced just being with me but not a word did you speak.

Like a vanguard for this Ummah you concealed yourself. Where others would rush to please their desires you were the essences of Taqwa.

Life was easy with you and it came so naturally. You were the extension of me and I would never need to finish my words as who knew me better then you....

It's the little things that make the person and you would have easily have kept me going for a lifetime.

I loved your jealousy. I loved to tease you with the thought of others just so I could know how dear I was to you. The way you would look at me with fire in your eyes showed me that I was the only one for you. You stole my heart and hide it away. You know your place it's by my side. What chance did shaytan have when you would ensure that fajr was the easiest of the salahs. I loved that you would forsake me in an instant to fast a voluntary fast. I loved that the Haq was dearer to you then my life and those of our jewels

Watching you makes me laugh as I wonder if my heart will ever want another as I watch you feed my child, as you lift her out of the bath, as you wipe her little nose and the face she pulls. You will never find a diamond in the hands of the poor in the same way our diamond deserves to be carried in your hands. We could have it all my love but who sells Paradise for an hour of passing pleasure? Not us.

I chose you Umm Aisya as I know our fruits are safe with you. Never will I have to worry about if they pray or offer supplication. Never would I have to worry about where the loyalties of my babies are. They will love what we love they will love Allah Most Glorified Most High, they will Love the Prophets and the best of Companions, They will love those who they have never met but will long to meet. They will love those better then us. They will live to honour one statement. Others will fall under the weight of La illiha illiha but not them. Their hearts will beat it, their words testify to it and their hands carry it.

Don't think I left you. Don't think that in this world anything is dearer to me then the minute that I walk home knowing what waits for me behind closed doors. I went to find a better place for us. I went to fulfil the best of deals. I saw it written that if you give your life then eternity will be ours. I saw it written somewhere that this was all a test and I have no doubt that one who promises us and whose word is truth must love me very much as he gave me you and you were the hardest thing to give up. They say the mind cannot comprehend what awaits us. They say that sadness will forgotten, they say that the eye has yet to see and the ear has yet to hear the beauties that await us in our new home. They say rivers of honey my love they say rivers of milk they say rivers of wine. They say pearls and Gold thrones , they say musk and cool breezes. Is it not fitting that I go to see this land afar to take you and our children? I fear that the gates of opportunity will close behind me my love. I fear others will hear what I hear and rush there and I will have nothing to offer you.

I know you will send our sons to look for their father. Tell them that they will find me in every battle, in every fight where the black flag is flown.

Tell them that the pain will be a pinch and then they will see what I see. Tell them Green Birds wish to meet them. Tell the Angels will call them by the best of names and most of all that Allah The One The Eternal will be pleased with them.

I told you once that only 2 things will have me. You and death. My life was with you but now I must marry again. I must marry what was promised to me the moment I was born. I must marry my fate and in turn I must marry death. After death will come reckoning and if I stand with the best of creation I will with the permission of Allah Lord of the Heavens and the Earth I will beg for you. None was worthy to stand next to me in this life so why is it I should desire another in the next?

Source: Darulilm


...and the tears flow down

Saya nak jadi baik, faham dak?

*entry membebel dekat diri sendiri*

Both men and women, always want a good partner to be their spouse. But in most cases, not many people try to be the best servant of Allah swt, instead they want their partner to teach them to be one. So, they will look for a pious husband/wife instead of trying to be pious themselves. Adilkah macam tu??

Allah swt said in Surah An-Nur verse 26:

"Women impure are for men impure, and men impure for women impure and women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity: these are not affected by what people say: for them there is forgiveness, and a provision honourable."

This ayah was revealed concerning Saidatina Aisyah ra in the Al-Ifk event. Allah swt had chosen her to be the wife of Prophet Muhammad saw because she was good. (Al-Quran also mentioned about good people who married bad person such as Asiyah ra and Firaun, and Nabi Luth with his wife.. ummi tak jumpe good articles utk rujuk pasal ni, if I found one I'll explain).

Untuk diaplikasikan pada diri kita masa kini, perasan tak in this ayah Allah swt explains about 2 types of people; the good(thayyib) and the bad(Khabis=bad, evil, wicked). Tak de pulak yang separa baik ke, separa jahat ke..Habis tu, kalau kita kejap2 baik kejap2 jahat masuk golongan mana? Jeng jeng jeng..

Baik vs jahat

Life is full of choices. Who you are is what you choose to be.

Bak kata Dumbledore to Harry:

"Listen to me, Harry. You happen to have many qualities Salazar Slytherin prized in his hand-picked students. His own very rare gift, Parseltongue – resourcefulness – determination – a certain disregard for rules.and yet the Sorting Hat placed you in Gryffindor. You know why that was. Think."

"It only put me in Gryffindor," said Harry in a defeated voice, "because I asked not to go in Slytherin."

"Exactly," and Dumbledore, beaming once more. "Which makes you very different from Tom Riddle. It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities."

Kids, whatever you choose to do, choose the one which pleases Allah swt. Kata ustaz Ummi, kalau nak buat anything, buat lah benda yang kita boleh niatkan untuk Allah which means bila kita nak buat benda tu kita boleh baca Basmallah. Contohnya, kalau nak mencuri, kita tak boleh baca Bismillah kan?

Tentang jodoh

Dalam soal jodoh, if we want someone who loves and serve Allah, we need to love and serve Allah first. Kata ustaz roh kita ni ada magnet. Tapi magnet ni tertarik dengan jiwa yang sama dengan dia. Sebab tu kita tengok selalu orang baik kawan dengan orang baik dan sebaliknya.

Ummi tertarik dengan kata2 ni:


Aku dambakan isteri sehebat Khadijah
Aku cuba mengikut akhlak semulia Rasulullah

Jika aku ingin isteri secantik Balqis
Aku pelajari dan hayati kehebatan Sulaiman

Jika aku mengharapkan suami setampan Yusuf
kasih setulus Zulaikha aku usahakan

Aku mencari suami seteguh Ibrahim
Lalu aku harus sekuat Hajar dan Sarah

Aku bermimpi mendapat lelaki seperti Ali
Maka aku mengikuti hebatnya Fatimah

Akhir kata dari ummi, Berusaha!!!

My twin babies: Haris and Haikal

*I have no idea people read what I wrote but I found out that I have regular silent readers from Russia, Autralia, UK, Germany, Malaysia, Egypt, and Indonesia. I don't mind actually but I just want you to know that I'm not an ustazah and I may make mistakes when quoting anything from Al-Quran and Hadis. If you find anything wrong, please let me know. Thanks. Uhibbukum fillah =)

Qabbalni

ok title tak de kena mengena. kelas Arab hari ni plg ingt perkataan tu je..hikhik. I'll write something when I'm free. for now listen to this lecture ok?

Wearing niqab for women

sedih lak dgr ni..hmmmm

Qabbalni = kiss me


niqab:bila la nk berani nih.

Islam and ego

Good reminder....

Problems among Muslims:
1.If someone corrects you what is your first reaction? If you get offended(ex you say: why do you say such things to me? who do you think you are to advice me), then you have ego problem.
2. You look nice outside,very devoted to religion, but inside, your heart doesn't move with Allah's words, you look down opon other Muslim that means you have khibr(arrogance).


Abdullah bin Mas`ud (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, "He who has, in his heart, an ant's weight of arrogance will not enter Jannah.'' Someone said: "A man likes to wear beautiful clothes and shoes?'' Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, "Allah is Beautiful, He loves beauty. Arrogance means ridiculing and rejecting the Truth and despising people.''
[Muslim].


How to solve heart problems?
1. Remembering Allah and give credits to Him
2. Uncomfortable with praises
3. Put expectations in Allah swt
4. Keep fixing intentions
5. Find better company
6. Learn to keep mouth shut- or give advice in the nicest way - you job is to remind but not to change people

Fazakkir innafa 'atizzikra

*Don't tell people how good they are, because it will just boost their ego.


Ummi used to be very ego so I listen to this again and again and again until I become more humble.

Hadis

Qala Rasulullah saw: faman azaha, faqad azani, waman azani, faqad azallah

*andai org y dimaksudkan Rasulullah itu adalh ummi..hmm abaikan*

Rahsia seorang lelaki ghuraba

*ummi masih dlm gua*

P :: Kenapa awak tak pernah minta gambar saya walaupun dah lama kita berkawan?
L :: Bagi saya itu bukan satu kepentingan. Saya hanya akan lihatnya bila sampai masanya. (Lihat hanya untuk melamar).
P :: Kenapa awk tak pernah minta nombor fon saya?
L: Itu mungkin akan menjadi perangkap syaitan antara saya dan awak.
P :: Kenapa awak tak penah puji saya macam laki2 lain puji awek dorang?
L: Puji2an hanya untuk Allah yang Maha Esa.
P :: Kenapa awak tak macam lelaki lain, yang selalu bergurau senda dengan perempuan2?
L :: Rasulullah saw tidak pernah bergurau dengan mana2 perempuan bukan mahram. kecuali isteri2nya sahaja.
P :: Kenapa awak terlalu tegas dengan perempuan2 yang cuba kenal dgn awk?
L :: Umar Al-Khattab seorang yg tegas. Saya mahu mencontohi beliau. Lelaki dan perempuan ibarat magnet. kalau saya bersikap terlalu mesra, perempuan2 akan mengambil kesempatan atas kemesraan saya dan ini akan menimbulkan satu harapan dalam hati mereka.

Source: facebook

*ada orang cakap benda yang sama pada ummi.betollah perempuan tu fitnah.haish*

Parenting 001

*dalam gua pun ada internet tau*

*kids, you know what..your grandpa is the coolest dad ever! He never says no to me; he let me see my friends as long he is the one who take me and fetch me, he let me buy expensive shoes as long I promise to wear them, he let me study abroad, he drove me to my boarding school(although he was tired working) since I didn't want to take the bus (ummi ngade sikit dulu..haish) and even when I asked him if i can get married he didn't ask me with whom instead he said "as long you finish your study, you can do what you want"..he really trust me and what I really love about him...he always sounds very happy everytime I call his phone..

He's cool rite? I love you dad =)

Selamat Hari Raya Aidil Adha

Assalamualaikum sayangsss..

It's Eid today! tapi skrg pukul 12 malam..esok pagi baru eid prayer. Raya in US, there's nothimg much I can tell. Selalu raya macam tak raya pun..Everyone pun busy with classes and exams maybe ada 1 or 2 open houses and ummi pun ada exam this coming week. Slaughtering animals isn't allowed at my place, so they will do slaughtering in Philadelphia. InsyaAllah diorang will give us lembu. Ummi ingat when I was in high school, the school gave each of us burung puyuh untuk slaughter. and I guess you know I didn't do it because I was scared..haish..

I want to go bertapa kat gua for a while after this. I'm not being nice lately and I feel so wrong to write about Islam here when my heart is futur. I'm not sure if this is the right thing to do, or maybe syaitan saja kacau ummi, or maybe because my hormone is changing that I can't think straight but I've decided to hibernate for a while and belajar agama and perbaiki hati.

  

Hmm itu saja kot. Ummi and walid love you sooooo much.. Rabbana hablana min azwajina qurrata a'yun waj 'alna lil muttaqina imama..Please pray for me and walid. =). I'll be back, InsyaAllah!!!

Surah An-naba..ummi suke dgr org baca surah ni. 

*I just found my beloved pencil that I've been searching this whole week while writing this. Alhamdulillah. thank you Allah =)*

Aisya #10: Al-Kauthar

Di suatu petang, si ibu mengajar anaknya membaca Al-Quran.


Ummi: Chapter 108 Surah Al-Kauthar. It has only 3 ayah. Read the whole ayah with the meaning.


Aisya:

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَـنِ الرَّحِيمِ 

In the Name of Allāh, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

إِنَّآ أَعْطَيْنَـكَ الْكَوْثَرَ * فَصَلِّ لِرَبِّكَ وَانْحَرْ * إِنَّ شَانِئَكَ هُوَ الاٌّبْتَرُ

Verily, We have granted you Al-Kawthar.Therefore turn in prayer to your Lord and sacrifice.For he who hates you, he will be cut off.

Sadaqallahul azim...Ummi can I get Ribena now?

Ummi: erk Aisya..tarkiz!! I'll make you Ribena after we are done with our lesson. What is Al Kauthar in this ayah?

Aisyah: Al-Kauthar is a river in Paradise.

Ummi: Hasanah..Let me tell you the story when this Surah was revealed. Prophet Muhammad saw had 3 sons, Qasim, Abdullah(He was also called Tayyab or Tahir) and Ibrahim, and they died at a very young age. Qasim and Abdullah were born from Sayyidah Khadeeja ra and Ibrahim was born from Sayyidah Maria ra. When Abdullah died(he was born after Prophethood), Prophet Muhammad saw felt so sad and the disbelieving Quraysh keep saying "Muhammad is  "abtar"; the one whose progeny has been cut off, he has no son to succeed him. When he dies, his memory will perish and you will be rid of him." Of course the Prophet feel so sad when he hears this. So, Allah swt revealed this Surah to consoled him. Tell me Ya Aisya, how can you reflect this surah in your life?


Aisyah: I guess when giving da'wah, we will face challenges. So, we need to expect it and to prepare for it. Allah swt also mentioned the ibadah we should do which are Ibadah badaniyyah (like salah) and ma'aaliyyah(such as sacrificing wealth) and be thankful if we were tested since Allah swt will give us a great reward in the hereafter. And also Allah swt had warned us, for those who reject Islam and say bad things about the Prophet, they will get punishment. So be patient if people treat us badly while we are giving da'wah to them.


Ummi: Jayyid jayyid..Now it's time for ribena!!..=)

rajin2 baca quran ye anak ummi

Sources:
Tafsir Ibnu Khatir http://www.islam-universe.com/tafsir_ibn_kathir/index.html
Tafsir fi Zilalil Quran by Syed Qutb http://alambuku.tripod.com/pdf/Tafsir+Surah+Al-kauthar.pdf
Introduction to the Quran by Syed Abu Ala' Maududi


*ummi rindu ribena..sob sob*


lupe nak tulis..surah ni sesuai utuk ibu mengandung

Fatihatul kitab

Oleh sebab ummi dah bosan stalk sheikh Hamdan, ummi menemui orang baru untuk di stalk. Siapa lagi kalau bukan...jeng jeng jeng...

Ustaz Don!!! Ustaz ni mostly teaches tajwid, cara bacaan Quran, sebutan huruf dsb..Sometimes kita amik mudah bacaan ayat Quran and you know it is not a good thing, mungkin saja bacaan kita tu tak mendapat pahala. or mungkin saja cara sebutan yang salah memberi makna yang lain. So, be careful! 

=)

Yesterday, while waiting for Zuhr, ummi, Su'ud(she's from UAE) and a girl from Saudi Arabia(I forgot her name) discussed about the differences between Arabic accents..ntah mcm mana the discussion lead to the topic "Shiekh Hamdan and his tiger" haha..See!! bukan ummi je suka orang bela tiger..mana nak cari walid lagu tu..

ok merepek.. ni last..quote dari orang

"Tidak perlu kau memiliki wajah seindah Nabi Yusuf A.S yang mampu mendebarkan jutaan gadis untuk membuatkan mereka terpikat. Andainya dialah jodohmu yang tertulis di Luh Mahfuz, Allah pasti mencampakkan rasa kasih di dalam hatinya, jua hatimu kali pertama kamu berpandangan. Itu janji Allah."


*kalau tak pernah berpandangan macam mana? ok itu ummi tak tahu

Saving family

Some people are lucky, to be raised in a religious family and some are not. If Allah swt gives us a not very religious family, that means Allah swt has chosen us to give da'wah to our family. But, we will need to be extremely patient.Whoever they are, they are still our family and if we don't have a good relationship with our parents, that will be the easiest ticket to the hellfire. So, be patient, make du'a, and approach them in the nicest way. and don't be sad..Innallaha ma'ana! =)

*Ummi really wants to be the best mom for you, my kids. If there are things I did wrong or I made you upset, please tell me. May we become a good Muslim family*

Fall on campus

Ba3da as-suar akhaztu fi jami'i

Cinta Rasulullah saw

قالوا: ما يبكيك يا رسول الله ؟

قال: اشتقت إلي إخواني 

قالوا : أولسنا إخوانك يا رسول الله ؟

قال :  لا أنتم أصحابي، أما إخواني فقوم يأتون من بعدي يؤمنون بي ولم يروني 

Aisya #9: Negara Jepun

Di suatu pagi yang indah..

Ummi: Ya Aisya, do you believe me if I say that Japan doesn't exist.

Aisya: Ummi, are you ok? We all know that Japan does exist.

Ummi: Are you sure? How do you know? You've never been there.

Aisya: because it's in the map, in news. in television...

Ummi: Well honey, that's only a Western propaganda. They create this whole idea of Japan as a country just to take control of the economy of Asia! You know even the map was drawn by human!

Aisya: Ummi, that's ridiculous! If there's no Japan, who are the Japanese? And you know there exist Japanese language.

Ummi:  Oh sweetie. The Japanese we see on tv are actually Korean who speaks a dialect which is called Japanese language.

Aisya: That doesn't sounds right. You know even Walid said he wanted to go to Japan. I know he won't lie to me.

Ummi: Then, I'm sure he has no idea that Japan doesn't exist.

Aisya: Aaaaah Ummi! We also have Japanese products in this house. How can you deny this?

Ummi: =)..I hope you will stand up just like this when people question you about Allah swt or Islam. I saw people nowadays fought to defend their views on politics.. but when we were questioned about Allah's law such as hudud or hijab, how many people stood up to defend our religion? It's sad to see some of the Muslims don't believe in the rules of Allah swt. One of the reasons we become like this is because we don't know Allah swt and understand Islam well. If you know a little about Japan, I'm sure you will agree with me that it doesn't even exist. Same goes to Islam..It's easy for people to manipulate you when you have little knowledge about things. So, Aisya, seek good knowledge, ask me and Walid if you don't understand things, and hold firmly to the rope of Allah swt. May Allah protect you sweetheart.

*Nak tahu ummi's political stand point?Nanti when you grow up ummi cerita.*